Here’s the short version…if you’re not doing the actions that lead to the results you want, even when you know the actions will improve your life dramatically, there are a few things that could be stopping you, and they all start in your unconscious mind:
1 – You might not be sufficiently and emotionally bought into your visions. I’m not talking about your GOALS, which are useless to your unconscious mind by themselves, but your VISIONS. Your visions have limitless power to get you in ACTION, because they speak the language of your unconscious mind.
2 – You might not fully comprehend what will happen if you DON’T do the actions that lead to results you’re after. In other words, you’re OK making excuses instead of taking ACTION.
3 – You might have a fear of failure, which stems from a limiting and disempowering belief you might not even be aware you have. If that’s the case, we have to “Erase the Waste” that’s sabotaging you, and I can show you how.
4 – You might have a fear of success (most people do), which is the most dangerous fear to have because it’s HIDDEN so most people never address it. But fear of success will always stop you dead in your tracks. I have learned from my coaching business that most people in direct sales or multi-level marketing have a HUGE fear of success. Meaning success in your company or business is uncomfortable on some level. Your unconscious mind will fight to the death to keep you comfortable, resisting whatever is uncomfortable at all costs. So…if success in uncomfortable, there’s simply no chance. Even if you accidentally succeed for a short period of time, you will quickly bring yourself back into your comfort zone.
5 – You do not realize that your comfort zone is a prison you’ve created for yourself. I like to change the wording and call it your ‘familiarity zone’ – because it’s where you live with what is familiar to you, or what you’re “used to”. But if you’re trying to achieve a goal you’ve never gotten before, then, by definition, it is unfamiliar to you…and probably seems a little uncomfortable, too. The only way to get what you want is to step out of that zone and take the risk. If you don’t, you’ll never get your goal.
Now, if you’re like most people, all 5 of these things are happening at the same time. Woo-Hoo!!! (I hope you sense my sarcasm!)
The good news is that all of these symptoms generally come from the same cause – your limiting beliefs. Once you erase your internal obstacles, such as "I’m not good enough" or "I’ll never be successful" or "Success is hard", most if not all of your sabotaging behaviors will come to a halt.
